Robin Williams Open Thread: Hopefully He Knew How Very Much He Was Loved

Robin Williams in The Fisher King

Robin Williams in his tour de force performance as a homeless former history professor in The Fisher King, with Jeff Bridges and Mercedes Ruehl. His acting performances ranged right up into greatness.

Robin Williams died today, apparently of a suicide by asphyxiation.  A brilliant comedian and often stunning actor, as well as someone who spoke openly of his history drug abuse and loneliness and chronic depression, one can hope that at the end he at least knew how much he was loved by the public.  Check out the links at that hometown news station’s piece.  And, of course, there are many other reports coming out right now.

A life incompletely lived shocks all the more, so you’re welcome to post your thoughts and your remembrances here.  Remember that suicide is complicated — we don’t know if he had an imminently fatal disease, for example, so please try to be kind and generous before you judge.  And. as his family requests, perhaps we can dwell less on his final tragedy and more on remembering his great legacy.  As well as, uh, Patch Adams.  (Comedians, they so badly want to be loved!)

There are some days when it really does make sense to read the Hollywood Reporter, and this is one of them.

And here’s the County Coroner’s report.

UPDATE, 8/12

I’m not much of a fan of comedian Norm MacDonald, who on Saturday Night Live generally seemed to lack the sense of human kindness and fairness that makes the best comedians what they are, but he told a beautiful story today over Twitter.  Rather than leaving it as a series of 18 tweets, I’m going to collapse it into a narrative form.  (I’ve fixed just a little of the punctuation and typography for clarity.)

It was my first stand-up appearance on Letterman and I had to follow the funniest man in the world.

I was a punk kid from rural Ontario and I was in my dressing room, terrified.  I was on the phone to a friend back home when the funniest man in the world ambled by.  There was no one else on the floor. In shock, I told my friend who just walked by. Only the funniest man in the world.

I guess he heard me say his name, cause in an instant he was at my side. He was a jewish tailor, taking my measurements. He went down on his knees, asked which way I dressed.  I told my friend on the phone that the funniest man in the world was on his knees before me, measuring my inseam.

My friend didn’t believe me so I said, “Could you talk to my friend, sir?” The funniest man in the world took the phone and for ten minutes took my friend’s Chinese food order.  I laughed and laughed and it was like I was in a dream because no one else was there. No one.

The place was out of Moo Shoo Pork, and there was nothing he could do about it.

He angrily hung up on my friend and I was about to thank him when he said I hadn’t even tried the jacket on. Then the funniest man on earth dressed me, a complete stranger, and I remember he ended with a Windsor knot. He spoke mostly Yiddish, but when he finished he was happy with his job and turned me to a mirror to present myself to me.

No one witnessed any of this. No one.

The funniest man alive was in my dressing room a good half-hour and was far funnier than the set I had to do soon. When he left my dressing room, I felt alone. As alone as I ever remember feeling.  Until today.

What an amazingly generous gesture from the master to the novice.  Who else would do such a thing?

About Greg Diamond

Somewhat verbose attorney, semi-disabled and semi-retired, residing in northwest Brea. Occasionally ran for office against jerks who otherwise would have gonr unopposed. Got 45% of the vote against Bob Huff for State Senate in 2012; Josh Newman then won the seat in 2016. In 2014 became the first attorney to challenge OCDA Tony Rackauckas since 2002; Todd Spitzer then won that seat in 2018. Every time he's run against some rotten incumbent, the *next* person to challenge them wins! He's OK with that. Corrupt party hacks hate him. He's OK with that too. He does advise some local campaigns informally and (so far) without compensation. (If that last bit changes, he will declare the interest.) His daughter is a professional campaign treasurer. He doesn't usually know whom she and her firm represent. Whether they do so never influences his endorsements or coverage. (He does have his own strong opinions.) But when he does check campaign finance forms, he is often happily surprised to learn that good candidates he respects often DO hire her firm. (Maybe bad ones are scared off by his relationship with her, but they needn't be.)